Sad Day
February 20, 2013 | Filed under: Stuff
We got Ashes thirteen years ago, when the kids called me at home and said “we found a puppy in a box can we have her?”
Like I could say no to a puppy in a damn box.
So they brought her home and for every single day of those thirteen years, Ashes and I went for a hike. For every single day of those thirteen years she followed me wherever I went including the bathroom. When I brought home an orphaned kitten, Ashes did her best not to eat her. And when I brought home another puppy, Ashes did her best to suffer the joyous, rambunctious thing with grace and good will.
She protected me from bears and coyotes, and she shared my cookies, and stank up my office, and she always, always, gave me unconditional love.
RIP, Ashes. You will be missed.
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Peggy says:
So sorry for your loss, Ashes looks to be a lovely dog.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:33 amMaria says:
Oh Jill I am so sorry.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:46 amPatti A says:
Jill,
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:47 amSo sorry for ths loss. I have been There & I understand just how difficult it can be. They are family members as well. Hope the happy memories bring you comfort.
Kathryn S. says:
So sorry to hear about Ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:48 amCarley says:
I am crying reading your post! I have been there myself and I know u are heartbroken. I am so sorry for your loss. It’s the risk we all take when we love anything. I will keep your family in my thoughts.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:51 amAmanda says:
What a sweetie. Bless her. So sorry.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:52 amMechele Armstrong says:
RIP Ashes. I’ve been reading your blog for several years now and feel like I’ve lost someone special this morning, a tribute to you writing about her. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:59 amMary G says:
I’m so sorry Jill. I know how much you loved her. ((Hugs))
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:04 amKim Lynch says:
I am so sorry for you loss. They creep in to your heart on their little paws and leave a enormous hole when they have to depart.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:05 amMichelle B says:
So sorry to hear about the loss of Ashes. I always looked forward to hearing your tales of adventure together here on the blog.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:06 amKaren B says:
So sorry for your loss Jill…we just this year welcomed a german shepherd puppy into our home…11 years after the loss of my previous dog as it took me that long to get over it and I still miss her. I dread the day I’ll have to go through it again. Take care x
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:13 amLiza says:
So sorry to hear about Ashes. Send out big hugs to the entire Shalvis clan. Never easy to lose a furry member of the family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:13 ampatty porter says:
I’m so sorry about Ashes. We just lost our cat of 12 years.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:18 amCary says:
So sorry for your loss, that is a heartbreaker
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:23 amGayle says:
I am so so sorry! One of the reasons I read your blog is because of the love you have for all the furry babies. My heart is breaking for you loss. I hope Jake will be ok as well. Big hugs.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:29 amJane says:
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have been there and I know how this feels. You are part of my morning routine and feel as though I have lost a friend too. Thoughts are with your entire family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:37 amMia says:
Oh Im crying. Im so sorry for your loss, Jill
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:37 amPatoct says:
I am so sorry, Jill. My thoughts to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:37 amEileen says:
So very sorry to hear about your beloved Ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:48 amTerri Schaefer says:
Oh honey, I’m SO sorry to hear about Ashes. HUGS!!!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:51 amKelli B. says:
I am in tears reading this. I am so sorry for your loss. RIP Ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:11 amJessie Runge says:
Jill, I’m so sorry, I know how heartbreaking this must be for you and your family. Our pets are just like our children and it is devestating when we lose them, they give to us unconditionally and ask nothing but love in return. I know that Ashes has crossed the Rainbow Bridge and is running in the fields of heaven, exploring every inch…wagging her tail and happy. Send huge hugs your way!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:15 amSharon says:
So, so sorry for your loss. We lost our oldest girl 2 years ago. While I still get sad, and will always miss her, I remind myself she was loved every single minute of every single day we had her. Even when she ate the framing around our kitchen window in a fit of seperation anxiety.
You gave her a great life in which she was queen of her world, and she knew she was loved. RIP, Ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:18 amGwen R. says:
I am so sorry Jill for your loss. I have been there unfortunately and it gets easier eventually.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:23 amTammy says:
So sorry for your loss….
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:27 amEileen says:
sorry for your loss
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:30 amMaryAnne says:
Very, very sorry to hear about Ashes
It’s hard to loose a best friend who is also your fur baby. Heartfelt wishes go out to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:31 amLynn LaFleur says:
Your post brought tears to my eyes. I know how much you loved Ashes and how much she’ll be missed. Sending you big hugs.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:31 amMarianne says:
I am so very sorry for your loss. The furry and feathered members of our family are sometimes the hardest to lose. XOXOXOXO
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:37 amLaurie says:
So sorry. Our animals are more then just pets they are part of our families.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:39 amMatilda says:
I am so sorry – four legs or two, they’re still family and I know how much this will hurt. Love & hugs to all of you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:51 amJamie says:
So sorry for your loss.
After all you’ve shared about her here, I feel like I’ve lost a member of my own family. Hugs to all of you!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:55 amstephanie says:
Heart… breaking…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:58 amJulie says:
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Gina Dog after 12 years last year. She was a rescue who was hiding behind other dogs the whole day. When I came with my husband to look at another dog she she came out of her hiding place and curled up all 45 pounds of herself on my feet. For the next 12 years wherever I was she was, bathroom included.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:58 amDiane Engelhardt says:
So sorry for your loss. RIP Ashes. Hugs to all of you. Sad to hear this news!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:59 amSharon says:
Sorry sweetie!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:01 amMonica says:
Oh, what a sad day. You obviously loved her so much. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:02 amKaren W says:
So sorry for your loss Jill. RIP Ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:02 amConnie Lee says:
So sorry Jill, it’s so hard losing a long time pet and buddy.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:02 amapril says:
Oh, how terribly sad. I did enjoy hearing the Ashes stories. As with all pets over 10, I did feel this post was going to come eventually, but you know, we all hope it’s still further out into the future. So sorry to hear the news.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:03 amDenise says:
Very sorry for your and your family’s lose. Give Frat Boy a big hug during his time of lose also.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:04 amPaige says:
So sorry to you, your family, furry and all. I hope Frat Boy and Sadie don’t take it too hard. They will grieve just like you all will. sending hugs your way!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:04 amHelen LeClair says:
Sounds like you have a lot of happy memories of Ashes. She is walking the big hiking trail in the sky.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:05 amJudy says:
They are never with us long enough. RIP Ashes. You leave many joyful memories behind and will always be in the best thoughts of your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:05 amKrista says:
So sorry for your loss Jill.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:05 amTracy Gilpin says:
Jill, I’m so sorry for your and your family’s loss! Sounds like Ashes was a great girl! She will be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge and while she waits, she’s having fun with new-found friends. RIP Ashes
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:06 amLinda DeBauge says:
So sorry for your loss. Ashes was loved and you in return.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:06 amVandy B says:
So sorry for your loss Jill…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:06 amAnn-Catrin Sköld says:
Oh, so sorry, Jill.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:06 amI´m getting close to the moment I’ll have to say goodbye to my poodle Coffee…So I can imagine how you feel today.
Juanice Carr says:
They sure take up residence in our hearts, don’t they? Sending prayers for comfort today & in the day’s to come.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:06 amHeather Cathrall says:
So sorry for your loss
Pets truly are members of our families. It sounds like she lived a wonderful and loved life
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:07 amelisa romero says:
Omg no not old ashes im so sorry never easy losing a beloved pet.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:08 amJen C says:
Sorry for you loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:09 amLee Ann White says:
I am so sorry for your loss! I have enjoyed the stories you have shared over the years! You and your family will be in my thoughts today.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:10 amChristine H. says:
I’m so sorry to hear about Ashes.
Thinking of you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:10 amTeresa Wilson Rogers says:
So sorry for your loss, I feel your pain. We just lost our beloved 9 year old Labrador Riley to cancer on December 22nd. It’s always hard, but at least we know we gave them a wonderful, loving life and they gave it back to us in return.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:10 amKelli Evans says:
I’m so sorry to hear this.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:11 amGo ahead and eat that whole box of cookies today, Jill.
Jessica Bell says:
I am truly so sorry for your loss. A loss of a pet is a loss of a family member.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:12 amKelly B says:
Awwww Jill, I am so sorry to hear about Ashes. What a beautiful dog she was. You two had thirteen wonderful, fun-filled days together and you will cherish that forever. I am tearing up as I right this as I am a huge animal lover and it hurts deeply when one of our furrbabies cross over to the Rainbow Bridge. I am sure she knows how much she meant to you and how much you meant to her. Treasure your memories Jill. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:12 amDawn-Marie says:
so sorry. its hard to lose a beloved pet/friend.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:12 amKathy says:
Aww Jill- I feel for/with you. Sending hugs (I’d also send cookies if I felt the post office would know which house to deliver them).
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:12 amElizabeth M says:
Jill, I am heartbroken for you right now! I know just how hard that is, and how it feels like you won’t get over it. I’m sure you know it, but, in time, it will get easier. You’ll start to only remember the love and good times with Ashes, and the sadness will fade…at least, some. Don’t we wish they could just live forever?! I’m sending you HUGE hugs and good thoughts…you and your family!! Hug the other fur babies especially close for a while. I’m sure they miss Ashes, too. <3
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:13 amBarb g says:
So sorry for your loss! Losing a treasured pet is always hard!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:13 amKathleen O says:
Jill my heart is breaking for you and your family… May Ashes RIP and he will be forever in your heart.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:13 amLeesa says:
Jill, so sorry for you loss. It’s so hard to lose a beloved pet. They are members of the family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:14 amLa Bookchic' says:
Sorry to hear you lost your precious pet…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:14 amCrystalGB says:
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:15 amAuntie J says:
Oh, Jill. There are no words. I am so very sorry. I know how much you loved Ashes. My heart aches for you, and for your girls, and for Alpha Man. I hope Frat Boy lets you hug on him and cry. *hugs*
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:15 amElizabeth W says:
I’m so sorry. We lost our chihuahua (16 1/2) at the beginning of the month. It’s so hard. (((HUGS)))
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:16 amAmanda Bordner says:
So so so sorry about your loss! Something like that is never easy!! When I found out our dog of 14 years had died, I had to pull of to the side of the road I was crying too hard to see where I was going. She looked like a phenomenal and loyal dog, thinking of you and your family today, Jill!!! <3
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:16 amKate says:
I’m so very sorry. Big hugs to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:17 amteresa C. says:
i”m crying right now as i’m reading this.I’m so sorry for your families loss..Since we have gotten to know Ashes through your blog i feel like we have all lost a friend. Just know that Ashes will still be watching over you it will be from above. Saying a little prayer for you and your puppy.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:18 amPam F says:
I’m sorry Jill, they always take a piece of our heart when they go. I wish pets would live longer…Rest well Ashes – sending peace to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:19 amCarrie says:
So sorry. I’m going to go hug my dogs now…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:19 amSebrina says:
There’s nothing that I can say that will make you and your family feel any better about losing your precious Ashes. The only thing I can say is ‘she loved you guys with all her heart’. Remember and talk about her everyday and she’ll be there with you still.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:20 amSending you and your family healing thoughts to help you through this time.
Norma says:
Oh I’m so sorry. Hugs to you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:21 amCara Heard says:
So sorry. I’m next to my 10 year old best friend and can’t imagine a time without her.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:22 amPat F says:
So very sorry Jill! You have lost a member of your family! What a good life he had with you!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:22 amGianna Macke says:
RIP Ashes…It’s hard to lose a dog or cat that has been like a family member for many years. They give us unconditional love everyday. I’m sorry to hear about Ashes passing! Rescuing her thirteen years ago, and giving her a good home and love was rewarded everyday! You were lucky to have such a wonderful dog and she was lucky to have a wonderful family!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:22 amKarise E says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. Ashes was a good dog and will be missed.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:23 amJamie Denton says:
I am so very sorry, Jill. I know how hard it is to lose a beloved and trusted friend.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:24 amRebecca Erickson says:
Oh my! So sorry Jill. Sniff, sniff. Hate when our babies leave us, they always seem to leave a whole in our hearts.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:24 amMary W says:
So sorry for your loss. It is always hard to say goodbye to a family member/best friend.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:24 amadalgisa Lena Mancuso Robinson says:
So sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:24 amJowana says:
I am so sorry Jill. Hugs to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:25 amConnie says:
I am so sorry for you and your family, Jill.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:26 amColleen says:
((((Hugs)))) Jill I’m so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts today.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:26 amKaren says:
I am so sorry for your loss.
It is so hard losing a cherished member of your family. I truly enjoyed the stories and pictures you have shared with us over the years. Thank you for sharing her.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:27 amBarb Zachow says:
I think losing a family pet is one of the hardest things….she was your unconditional buddy.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:27 amJess says:
So sorry Jill & family!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:28 amKelly says:
So sorry for you and your family. I’ll be keeping you all in my thoughts today. Hug Frat Boy tighter, perhaps?
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:28 amMelissa Horton says:
I’m sorry for the loss of your furry BFF.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:30 amMichelle C says:
So sorry to hear about Ashes. They are family, and so hard to lose. Thinking about you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:31 amAnita says:
Oh Jill!! I am so sorry for your news. I know your family will suffer from her loss. As I was reading your tribute there were tears in my eyes because I understand your grief. You were SO lucky to have been blessed with such a sweet and unfailing friend. Comfort and best wishes to you any your family. Hug Frat Boy he will be missing her too.
Hugs.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:32 amAnita
Beth says:
So sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:35 amMaryAnn says:
So sorry for the loss. Pets are a part of the family. I dread the day my MIL loses her beloved Cuddles.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:36 amVicki says:
As our Vet told us when we lost our sweet Emily, “it’s always the good dogs that die young!” So very sorry…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:36 amCateS says:
So sorry for you and your family… poor Frat Boy too! It’s always hard to lose a loved one…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:38 amFelicity says:
*hugs* losing a fur kid is never easy. At least you were lucky enough to have had your life made that much richer for her being in it. She sounds like she was very lucky to be a part of your family. Thinking of you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:39 amJill Borchardt says:
Oh Jill, I am so very sorry. I hope your memories will help you through this really crappy, difficult time. Please give Frat Boy extra love, and possibly some extra patience, as he will be missing her too.
I wish their were words that could make things better for you and your family, but alas, there aren’t.
Big Hugs to you and your family.
Jill
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:39 amMichelle says:
Oh, Jill, I am so sorry for your loss!! I am in tears reading your blog. It is never easy to lose a beloved family member. Lots of hugs to get you through this time.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:40 amWendy says:
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:41 amKathyP says:
I am so sorry. RIP Ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:42 amSheila Chaudoin says:
Jill, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Your Ashes reminded me so much of my Callie, who was part Border Collie with speckled hair like your Ashes. I lost her at 15 years of age. She was so smart and loved me unconditionally as I did her. If there are no dogs in heaven then I don’t want to go. But I can’t believe that because dog spelled backwards is God!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:42 amCarla says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Pets are our children with fur and teach us so much about love.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:43 amBrandy says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Much love and prayers for you all.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:46 amKristy says:
So sorry for your family’s loss. Prayers and hugs to you all.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:46 amWebby says:
R.I.P. Ashes. Any time we lose a beloved furbaby, it is a devastating loss. Please know I am thinking about you, Jill, and hope that you can remember all the good times that Ashes brought you. I know that Ashes was loved and had a wonderful life with you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:47 amSamantha says:
Oh Jill, I am so sorry for you and your family’s loss. Losing a pet is one of the most difficult things in this world. Even though our pets maybe with us for just a short time in our long lives they fill us so much love and joy are willing to take on the heartbreak of losing them. I’ve read your blog for a few years and very much enjoyed hearing about your adventures with Ashes and the many funny stories involving her. I feel as if I lost a part of my family. Lots of hugs to you all including Frat Boy and Sadie.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:47 amJana says:
Oh sweetheart *wrapping Jill up in a great big loving huggle* (Which is a snuggle and a hug combined) I am so sorry for your loss! It’s very rough when a furever friend passes over the Rainbow Bridge, you feel like you’ve been abandoned/left behind and that you’ve lost not just a best friend/companion but also one of your children.
I’m positive, however, she will still be hanging around to help protect you from those bears and other wildlife. She loved you THAT much!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:49 amAmy L. says:
So sorry for your loss. Just remember all the good times the two of you shared.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:49 amJulie says:
Sorry about the loss of your four legged pal. It’s amazing what different personalities every dog has.
We have two buried in a pet cemetery, and one on the mantel. And a three year old golden retriever that I hope has many years ahead of him.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:51 amTerry says:
So sorry for the loss of your most loyal companion, Ashes. I have my very own version & I weep at the thought of the day when I loose her. Wishing you the very deepest sympathies.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:52 amKelly W. says:
Shalvis family I am so sorry. They become such a part of us that when they leave they leave a hole in our lives. Animal or not they are a family member, and fill us with love. I’m so sorry. She was beautiful.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:52 amRochelle L says:
What a beautiful kissy face she had and what a loving tribute. Thinking of you and your family on this sad day.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:52 amDee B. says:
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you cared for her and she for you. Just remember that she was happy to be with you and your family. It is just so hard – stay strong.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:54 amKelly Mueller says:
I am so sorry for your loss. XOXOXO
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:55 amSusan Bruns says:
Dear Jill,
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:01 amSo sorry about Ahes. Losing a family member is so hard. Prayers and thoughts with you. Have a 15 year old grandpuppy and love him so much. Can’t imagine life without him. Take care.
Kim Mathon says:
I am so sorry for your loss! Losing my cocker spaniel Sadie a year ago was one of the hardest things I have ever had to deal with. I know to some she was just a dog but to me she was like a child to me. I know the feeling of losing a constant companion and shadow. You and your family are in my thoughts!!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:02 amThank heavens for Dogs!
Dottie N. says:
I am sorry for your loss Ashes will be missed. I had to put my 11 year old Golden Retreiver down last Spring. It was like losing a child. Just remember all the good times you and ashes had together.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:03 amjan says:
Sending love and hugs to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:03 amDanielle West says:
Sad day! Hope she finds all the cookies she wants in Heaven
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:05 amAlison C says:
I am so sorry for your loss! They really do give unconditional love and I couldn’t image my life without mine. Thinking of you and your family!!!!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:08 amJulienne says:
I am so very sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your family. When we lost our dear Beagle, Annie, a friend shared with me http://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:08 amSuch a wonderful site!
lisaione says:
Oh Jill, I am so sorry for your loss. I am sitting in my office with tears in my eyes because I know exactly how you feel, its been 4 months since I lost my 14 year old rescue kitty and still I miss her all the time. There is nothing like the unconditional love we receive from our furry family members and it is very difficult to say good-bye.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:08 amBailey Stewart says:
And for almost all of those years we’ve followed your adventures … Ashes was, in a little way, a part of our lives too. So very sorry Jill …. my heart aches for you, and my tears fall for Ashes. But remember, there’s a little place just this side of heaven where our animals wait for us … and when you cross that Rainbow Bridge Ashes will come to you again. Run free and play sweet Ashes, run free and play …..
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:08 amCarrieZ says:
Jill, so sorry to hear about your loss. It’s so hard to lose a pet, they’re like family. Ashes had a wonderful life with you, so take comfort in the fact that you loved her well and she loved you back. Hugs.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:08 amjanet says:
I an so sorry for your loss. Frat Boy will need, and give I’m sure, extra love now. My thoughts are with you and your family as you begin to build your new normal.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:10 amKimh says:
So sad hugs to u and. Family
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:11 amSteffi K says:
I am sorry for your loss loved reading your stories on her and your strong bond with Ashes, she will be missed with us as well
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:11 amDiana Robledo says:
I am so sorry to hear about Ashes passing away. Pets are more often than not, not just pets. They are friends, and they are family. Hugs…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:18 amJuhi says:
rip ashes ! so sorry for ur loses ! Losing a pet is always hard sometimes even more than a person ! ;(
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:19 amJennifer says:
I am so sorry Jill
I lost my furbaby in November after 12 years together. Here’s a poem that helped me…hope it helps you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:20 amhttps://rainbowsbridge.com/poem.htm
Shannon says:
So sad… I know how hard it is. Have Frat boy give you extra loving today.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:22 amSharon says:
So very sorry for your loss, Jill. I know how difficult it is to lose a family member.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:22 amKindle Gal says:
I’m so sorry, Jill. Sending hugs to all of you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:26 amAnitaL says:
So sorry to hear about Ashes. This loss will be felt for a long time but will get better over time. Hugs to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:26 amJenn Smith says:
I’m so sorry for your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:28 amRobin Bielman says:
Dammit. First I cried with Robin Roberts return to GMA this morning and now I’m crying about Ashes. I’m so sorry for your loss, Jill. Ashes was very lucky to have been found by your family and I hope your memories and pictures of her bring you and the rest of the Shalvis clan some peace. *hugs*
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:28 amJanice says:
So sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:31 amTammy W. says:
So sorry for your loss. Pets are members of our families and it’s always hard to lose them. Hugs to you all.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:31 amValerie P. says:
Jill, I am in tears for you over the loss of Ashes. Losing a beloved family member is never easy, but I hope your cherished memories bring you peace. Hugs to you all.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:32 amElen Grey says:
So sorry for your loss, Jill. Hike on, Ms. Ashes! You were a beloved companion.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:33 amKrystal Froats says:
So very sorry for your loss. So glad your kids “found” her and brought her home. She was a valuable part of your lives for so long.
We are close to losing a cat. She’s 15 years old and had a good life. Wasting away now.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:33 amNell Dixon says:
Oh Jill, I’m so sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:34 amCandice says:
So sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:36 amMandi says:
What a lovely story, what a special animal and bond! I am very sorry for your loss!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:37 amErika says:
For three years I’ve been reading your blog every Monday through Friday without fail. I am so sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing Ashes with all of us so unreservedly over the years. She will be missed, rest in peace Ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:37 amKaren says:
So Sorry about Ashes! She will always be in your heart !
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:40 amPam says:
Jill I am so sorry to hear about your dog. They become like family, sometimes even better than family with their unconditional love. Hugs to you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:41 amPam
Michele H says:
So sorry for your (and your family’s) loss. She was obviously very loved and I’m sure she knew that. Love and (((((hugs))))) to you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:41 amTracy S says:
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:46 amD says:
My deepest sympathies to your and your family. You are in my thoughts.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:50 amKim Wyant says:
That’s sad. I’m sorry for your loss. We lost our Fergie over 5 years ago and I know exactly what you’re going through and hope things get better soon.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:53 amFarrah says:
So sorry for the loss of such a great friend. I’ve enjoyed knowing her in your stories. Thinking of you…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:53 amAmanda says:
I’m so sorry for your loss and would like to thank you for sharing with us all those moments you shared throughout the years. Bless you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:55 amrypleigh says:
So sorry for your loss Jill. RIP Ashes!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:55 amCheryl Grossel says:
Jill,
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:56 amMy coldolances to you and your family. May the warm happy memories being you some comfort. fly free.
Cheryl
Liz T. says:
Oh no. How devastating for you and your family. We will miss not having any more adventure stories with her.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:56 amMary Jeanne Hoover says:
So sorry for your loss. Losing a beloved pet IS losing a member of your family. I’m sure Ashes provided you and your family with many happy, funny and exasperating moments. Enjoy and celebrate those moments!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:57 amMonicalu says:
I am so sorry about Ashes. Thank goodness for all of your wonderful memories.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:58 amAllie says:
I am so sorry to hear this, and so very sorry for your loss. My two dogs mean everything to me, they are family members, my best friends.
I have enjoyed every picture and story that included Ashes here on your blog. She had such a delightful, cheerful personality. I will miss hearing about her. Hugs to you, your family, and to your other pets who are no doubt also grieving.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:58 ambrandy morrison says:
So sorry for your loss Jill,
It’s so hard to lose a four-legged family member. I’ve been there. Almost 5 yrs ago, I had to have my 8yr old Jack Russell, Wally to sleep, and then my 18yr old cat, Riot, aka ‘Grandma Kitty’ It SUCKS that they don’t live as long as people. I now have an almost 5 yr old Tortoiseshell cat, Chai-Tea, ‘CHAI’ and an almost 4 yr old ‘SHORKIE’ ShihTzu/Yorkie, Oliver
Sending prayers and hugs!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:59 amDee (CT) says:
Am so sorry for you loss…. Know the whole family is in mourning for Ashes, a beautiful friend and companion. We have all been there…. and she waits for you over the Rainbow Bridge. Hugs…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:02 amBrandie B says:
So sorry! What a tough day! Sending hugs your way.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:03 amraeline says:
So sorry for your loss Jill.Rip ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:04 amChrystina Williams says:
So sorry for your loss Jill!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:05 amStacy H says:
So sorry for your loss. It’s hard to lose a special part of your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:06 amOH-Ang says:
OH…Jill. I am so sorry.
It is almost like we your readers/fans have lost a friend also. I have enjoyed reading of the adventures of Mountain Barbie and Ashes, then Ashes and Frat Boy. Ashes was the lady who kept the kids in line and she will be missed. Sending thoughts to you and the rest of the Shalvis Family during this tough time.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:06 amkaren says:
I am so very sorry!!! I recently lost one of my fur babies so I know how broken hearted you must be!!! Try to remember the good times and take comfort in the fact that you were a good mommy to ashes and I’m sure he loved you dearly!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:08 amPatty R. says:
So sorry to hear your loss of Ashes. Having suffered the passing of our beloved pets, my heart goes out to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:13 amBecky Holl says:
So sorry for your loss. I have lost many pets in my years and it never gets easier. They become a part of our family. You were all given such a gift. Ashes was given to a wonderful, loving family and you were given a true friend with love unconditional. Read the poem, “The Rainbow Bridge”. It’s a beautiful poem. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:16 amKimCz says:
I am so sorry. I lost my 13 year old black lab in November and I still miss him. It broke my heart and now my heart is breaking for you. Remember the good stuff and the silly times, and that you rescued Ashes and gave her the best home. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:16 amCheri says:
So sorry to hear about Ashes. She was a beautiful dog! They are like family to us and losing them is just as hard.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:17 amLisa Olech says:
Celebrate 13 long years of love and devotion and shared cookies. Loss can never take that away. I pray you find peace and love in all these messages.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:18 amCindy C. says:
I’m so so sorry for your loss. Our pets are a huge part of our lives and when we lose one it is devastating. I feel Like I knew Ashes through your stories. RIP sweet girl.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:23 amCheryl Rasmussen says:
Condolences. i hope she passed peacefully and not in pain. RIP Ashes
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:27 amVickie P says:
So so sorry…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:27 amMrsD says:
Thinking of you and saddened by your loss. Crying as I write this, for I too have suffered a pet’s last days. What a blessing she must have been from the start and all the good memories will continue to bless you as you continue on without her physical presence!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:30 amMichelle G. says:
So, so sorry for your loss Jill.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:31 amLori says:
Oh Jill. I’m so sorry. Sending cyber hugs.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:32 amKYLA WHITLEY says:
as the tears flow … ah jill … so sad … she had a wonderful life with you …
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:38 amQuilt Lady says:
Oh Jill so sorry to hear about Ashes. It is so hard to loose a pet you had for so long.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:38 amSusan says:
My thoughts to you and your family. We recently had to let our 13 year old lab go and then shortly after that our 11 year old cat. Sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:43 amBarbara says:
So sorry for your loss Jill. It is amazing how with one look in those puppy eyes they capture our hearts. RIP Ashes
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:46 amNicole S says:
I’m so sorry for you loss. It’s so tough to lose a pet. Sending many hugs your family’s way.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:46 amAmanda says:
Sorry for your loss
It’s the hardest to lose a dog because they give you unconditional love and protection no matter what’s going on.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:50 amAlisonP says:
So sorry for your loss Jill ((HUGS))
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:51 amSandi in OH says:
I am so sorry to hear about Ashes. I know your pain because this has happened too many times to me. Pets are so special.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:53 amKaron McCulloch says:
I’m so sorry, Jill. Losing a 4-legged member of the family is so hard. We have a 15-yr old lady whose days are limited. Her health is faltering. She came home as a puppy when my grand daughter was a newborn and is very much loved. Even with a house full of animals, we’ll miss her very much.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:53 amSharon says:
So sad. I understand how heartbroken you are. Our pets may not be around as long as we would wish them to be, but at least we make sure that each day they are with us they are filled with love and cuddles.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:53 amKelly says:
Not even the children we bare from our own womb will ever give us unconditional love as our cherished dogs do. Prayers for you and yours on the passing of your loved family member.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 9:58 amDarlene says:
So very sorry to read this. What a wonderful and happy life Ashes had with you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:00 amLinda Henderson says:
I am so sorry.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:05 amSue Peace says:
So sorry to hear about Ashes…hugs to you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:06 amJamie Kersten says:
Oh Jill, I’m so sorry. It’s so hard to lose a sweet pet. Glad you have lots of wonderful memories of Ashes though. Hugs!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:07 amSandi says:
So sorry about Ashes…it really sucks saying goodbye to a four legged family member.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:13 amChristine says:
I am so sorry for your loss. It was always wonderful to hear about your adventures together. It sounds like she had an amazing life with you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:14 amVanessa says:
Jill, I am so sorry for your loss. Ashes sounds like a one in a million very special dog.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:14 amAshley Montgomery says:
So sorry for your loss Jill. She is such a beautiful dog.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:17 amLisa Tipton says:
*hugs* i am sorry to hear this.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:18 amAda says:
Really sorry to hear about your loss, Jill. Losing any family – human or pet – is never easy. Hugs to you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:18 amPam B says:
My heart goes out to you. I will be there soon with my own baby. My son came home from next door and asked if he could have a Buster. Total confusion erupted until I found out that the neighbors mom had a dog that needed a new home. Told youngest he had to ask Dad thinking he could say no to a gold fur ball with gold eyes. Here we are years later and I’m not sure what I will do when we get to the end of the road that I can see coming.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:23 amAngie Alexander says:
I am so sorry for your loss! They definitely are a big part of a family! Take care!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:26 amJan Cook says:
Isn’t it interesting how attached we get to animals? We always say they’re like family, some really mean it, others say it because they feel they should. When they die, words can’t express the depth of our loss. My mother used to say, “don’t feel bad, it’s only a dog”. Can you imagine!? ONLY a dog!! I understand that a piece of your heart has gone to heaven with Ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:27 amJessie Foster says:
Jill –
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:29 amI’m so sorry for your loss. May your memories keep you strong in your grief.
Ann Henson says:
Big hugs, Jill. It is so very hard to have one of our family move on to the next level.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:30 amLauraR says:
I’m so sorry.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:33 amAmber says:
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Through your blog, I felt like I knew and loved her, too. Hugs.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:34 amEmily says:
Oh Jill! I’m so sorry for your loss! Ashes was a great old lady. I loved seeing pictures and reading stories about her. Sending virtual cookies to you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:38 amJP says:
Oh, Jill, I’m so sorry to hear about Ashes. I loved seeing your photos of her over the years I’ve followed your blog. She really was a sweetie, and I know you’ll be missing her. *hugs*
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:39 amSuzy Glatt says:
My ❤ is so sad for you!! I know how hard it is to lose someone close to you, so hard!!! Now that I am crying I can’t see to write!!! 😢
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:40 amJoyce Zahariades says:
I am so sorry for the loss of your dog. My heart goes out to you and your family. I enjoyed hearing (and seeing photos) of Ashes and her antics over the years. I feel your loss as well.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:44 amDonna A says:
I am so sorry, Jill. My thoughts to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 10:46 amKathleen G says:
I am so sorry to hear that your lost your amazing dog. I will keep you and your family in my thought. I will miss seeing her and reading about her around your blog. Thank you so much for sharing your time together with us.
Rest in peace, Ashes.
- Kathleen
Maybe her and Mountain Barbie are up in Doggy Heaven eating cookies together!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:02 amLaura K Curtis says:
Oh, I am so sorry to hear this. All that love is the hardest thing to lose. Take care of yourself and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:05 amMichelle Bourassa says:
So sorry for your loss. These guys always become part of our heart and lives, and are gone too soon.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:05 amMoran says:
Sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:11 amSharon says:
Jill,
I am so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my thought.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:13 amJudy F says:
Oh Jill, this has me crying at work. I am so sorry for you and your families loss. Ashes was a great pet and she will be so missed. Much love and prayers
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:14 amIRT says:
Jill, Ashes was very pretty, and she will always be in your heart. She is playing at the Rainbow bridge with all of her new friends in doggie Heaven. “Hugs”
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:17 amKim K says:
So sorry for your loss, Jill. You and your family are in my thoughts!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:25 amTwo Barking Dogs says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my “heart” dog in July at the age of 11 and I miss her terribly! It amazes me how a special animal can carve out such a big part of our heart and stay with us forever!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:31 amMaggie says:
So, so sorry to hear about Ashes. I did not realize you were close to loosing her. Best wishes to you and yours, I have been there myself. I hope Frat Boy and your kitty are not too lonely. It will get better. Big hugs to everyone.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:36 amShelley DiTommaso says:
Very sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:45 amStephanie B says:
We just lost our 13 year old cocker spaniel, Bluebell, in September. I still miss her constant companionship. She was our first “baby”. My oldest daughter is 10 and then I have a son who is 5 and then my youngest daughter is 3. Bluebell was a big presence in all our lives. Everyone loved her and she returned that affection in spades. My husband found a yellow lab puppy needing to be rescued in October. Let me tell you there is no greater distraction than a lab puppy who is bent on chewing up your entire home one piece(toy, pencil, puzzle, book, trash bag, furniture, my glasses, etc..) at a time. His name is Chance. We also rescued a second puppy in November. Another cocker spaniel this time. She is such a little lady & the perfect lap dog. We named her Chelsea since it went so well with Chance. If it wasn’t for the kids though, I don’t know how soon I would have been ready for another dog. They can never be replaced in your home or heart. Thinking of you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:53 amLeslie S says:
Jill, so very sorry to hear the sad news about Ashes.
You and the family are in my thoughts. Hugs to you all.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:53 amMelissa Hilles says:
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry for your loss, I know whats its like to lose a pet after that long. I lost 2 dogs and 1 cat. Prayers to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 11:59 amLSUReader says:
My heart bleeds for you, Jill. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:00 pmPaulette Wolf Reed says:
So sorry for your loss Jill…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:01 pmJennifer says:
Dearest Jill,
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:05 pmI am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Ashes will never be replaced but you will hold the loving memories of her in your heart forever.
My thoughts are with you and your family during this most difficult time.
Kendra says:
I’m sitting here crying for you. So sorry for your loss. And take of yourself for the next few days, weeks.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:06 pmKaren Schwartz says:
So sorry for your loss. A pet truly is a member of the family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:14 pmAlina D says:
Jill my heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Ashes had a good long life and will be missed.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:20 pmTracy says:
Sorry for your family’s loss. I recently lost my Ela after 16 years with her. I understand what you are going through.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:40 pmCrystal M says:
Nothing anyone can say can ease that pain. Just know that we love you, and we’re thinking of you. Rest in Peace Ashes. I know that there were several furbabies of mine that met you across that Rainbow Bridge.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:42 pmHeather L says:
So sorry for your loss, Jill. A friend recently had to say goodbye to one of her ten-year-old cats, and it was as hard for friends who knew him as it was for her. It’s never easy losing a cherished member of the family. May the many good memories of Ashes comfort you all.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:55 pmJanieC says:
So sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 12:58 pmCaroline Storer says:
Oh Jill, so sorry to hear of your loss. Hugs to you and all your family. I lost my dog a year ago and the void is immense. Caroline x
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 1:01 pmMelanie says:
I’m so sorry about Ashes. I’m all teary at work. Losing your pet is like losing part of the family. Ashes was such a pretty girl and looked so sweet. I know you’ll all miss her. I bet Frat Boy will too. Big hugs!!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 1:09 pmLaure says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Isn’t it amazing how what started out as a puppy in a box becomes such an integral part of our lives? She was a very lucky dog to have had 13 years of love and laughter in your home. I always enjoyed hearing of Ashes’ adventures here on your blog, and will miss her. Loving thoughts to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 1:29 pmJill A. says:
Jill, I’m so sorry for your loss! It’s so hard when we lose our fur-babies. I know you gave Ashes the best home possible and she couldn’t have been happier. She’ll be playing with her new friends and waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge. Hugs!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 1:29 pmKimberly K says:
I am so sorry for your loss- I always loved hearing of your adventures together and I will truly miss them. Pets are the most amazing thing and have the most unconditional love. I am glad you were able to enjoy 13 great years with her. **hugs!**
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 1:43 pmMelodie says:
I am so sorry for your loss Jill.She basked in your love every day of her thirteen years. And now she is on the other side of the rainbow bridge,full of light and love, where she will patiently wait to rejoin you.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 2:09 pmcatslady says:
I’m so sorry. The loss of pets puts a whole in my heart but they also fill it up.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 2:17 pmcatslady says:
Oh darn – that was “hole”
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 2:18 pmTrish C says:
Ashes had such a great life, and she gave you such a great life. My sympathy to you and your husband a girls….
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 2:24 pmJanet L. says:
So, so sorry for your heartbreak Jill.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 2:34 pmMarcy says:
Oh, Jill. I’m so, so sorry to hear about your sweet Ashes. She’ll be missed.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 2:53 pmDana says:
Awww, so sorry, Jill!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 2:55 pmCindy says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. She was a member of your family and that is hard to deal with, no matter the species. May Ashes rest in peace. Remember the good times and she will always be with you. ;(
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 2:59 pmMaggie says:
Good dog, Ashes, good dog! And bless all your hearts. <3
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 3:14 pmTaylor Bellitto says:
Sadpile
sorry Jill. Ashes sounded like a super dog and I know you and your family will miss her very much. I’d like to imagine she’s in doggy heaven or in a good place anyways.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 3:20 pmKim Akers says:
Oh, Jill, I am so sorry! I’ve been down that road, too, and it is not an easy one. She’s gone over the Rainbow Bridge and is waiting for you to join her there sometime in the future.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 3:38 pmSherry L. says:
Oh my Jill…. I am so sorry for your loss. They truly are a member of the family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 3:45 pmBC says:
Jill, I am so sorry for your loss. Ashes was truly a member of the family. I know you’ll remember her love and laughter.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:03 pmAmy says:
Jill,
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:04 pmI am so sorry for your lost. I have been reading your blog for many years now (since the beginning) and Ashes has been in so many of your posts. Even though they are animals, they are still part of the family and are deeply loved. My dog of 14 years died last year, and we still miss him greatly. I hope God grants you peace.
Cindy says:
So sorry for your loss, Jill. Animals are family, that is just all there is to it, and we grieve their loss as deeply.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:11 pmSusan R says:
This brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for your loss. ((((hugs))))
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:20 pmJeanne C says:
So sorry for your loss.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:32 pmMelissa says:
Thinking and praying for your family. Pets play a very special role in our lives and it’s a blessing every minute we get to spend with them.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 4:56 pmJen R says:
((HUGS)) So sorry for your loss.You, Alpha Man, & your girls gave a homeless baby a wonderful home and in turn gave you all her whole heart . RIP pretty Lady…
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:02 pmrobin says:
sorry for your loss, jill.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:21 pmZoraida says:
I feel bad for you for losing someone from your family, pets are family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:29 pmBrendaE says:
I’m so sorry Jill. W had to put my best friend (black lab named Sadie) of 16 years a couple weeks ago. I bought a frame and put a picture of her in it for each of my kids.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:32 pmSherri says:
Oh I’m soooo sorry to hear about Ashes so sad to lose a fur baby
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:38 pmEileen A-W says:
Awww Jill, I am so sorry for your loss. I had to put our 11-1/2 wire fox terrier, Zoe, down a year ago December and a day doesn’t go by that I don’t miss her. She was my youngest’s best firend. Throughout school, whenever he had to write a paper he always found a way to mention her. We knew she was going as her liver was shutting down, so my youngest & eldest did a memory stone with her paw print. Youngest wrote “My Best Friend” on it. Each of my kids have pictures of her & youngest is working on a collage of pictures. In fact, as a holiday present for youngest I created a photobook of pictures of Zoe from when we first brought her home to right before she crossed the rainbow bridge. This summer we found more pictures so now we have to create volume 2.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:40 pmDonna M says:
Oh Jill, you & your whole family must be missing Ashes so much. Your lovely words brought tears to my eyes.
Hugs to you & the family. Thank you so much for sharing stories about Ashes & pictures. I will miss her too.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:48 pmKrysta M. says:
Jill, i’m so sorry to hear of Ashes passing. She was a constant presence on your blog, it seems almost like we lost her too. Much sympathy and love to your family
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 5:52 pmMirmie says:
Oh, Jill – I’m so sorry!! Ashes will always have a piece of your heart and will be forever loved by her family. Hugs!!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:14 pmYol says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I loved reading about Ashes and her adventures with you. She seemed like such a sweet dog. She’ll be truly missed.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:14 pmSharon Avinger says:
I am so very sorry for your loss of your precious dog, Jill.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:16 pmMerilee says:
Oh, Jill, I’m so sorry. I’ve loved getting to know Ashes and, indeed, all your family through the stories you share and have come to care for them all. Sending all my love and hugs.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:29 pmev says:
Jill- I’m so sorry to hear about Ashes. Hugs. I hope Frat Boy is handling it ok.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:30 pmIrene says:
So sorry for your loss, Jill. The furbabies become part of our families and hold a special place, in our hearts. Sending love & hugs to you and your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:47 pmlilypadchavez says:
Truly sorry for your loss. All our pets are really one of our own. I can’t even think about not having my cats even for one day.
Again sorry for your loss… Thoughts and prayers out to your family.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:55 pmCarol O. says:
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family in your time of loss and grief.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 6:57 pmMickilou says:
My sympathies!!! I know how hard it is to lose a furry member of the family. May all your joyful memories help you through a difficult time.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:04 pmCheryl Sanders says:
I’m so sorry to hear about Ashes. Losing a pet is really hard. That unconditional love is hard to let go of *hugs*
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:07 pmRochelle says:
Hugs to you. I lost my kitty of 12 years last November – they’re part of the family and it hurts. Get some hugs from Frat Boy and remember the good times.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:15 pmSusan says:
So very sorry. All the stories and worries and confidences your Ashes heard over the years…there are few things more precious than a beloved pet.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:23 pmLee-Ellen says:
So sorry for your loss. It’s a very hard thing to lose a member of your family. You’ll certainly never forget Ashes but when you find the courage to adopt another dog – it will help you heal.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:37 pmCathy says:
So sorry to hear of your loss. I know how hard it is to lose that special furry friend.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:38 pmDaphne says:
So sorry for you loss. It is always so difficult.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:48 pmKelly S says:
I am so sad for your loss! It’s like losing a child.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:53 pmiheartbigbooks says:
Jill, I just saw this post. I’m so sorry for yours and your family’s loss.
RIP Ashes
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 7:57 pmTammy C says:
So sorry for your family’s loss of Ashes! I’m sure Frat Boy and Sadie miss her too! Just think of the wonderful life y’all shared and all the great memories and pictures you’ve shared with us over the years. Hugs
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:06 pmajdean says:
so sorryto hear of the passing of your beloved ashes.no doubt there is a big hole in the shalvis house today.rest in peace ashes.
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:23 pmWanda Henley says:
So sorry to hear of your loss. My dog, Muffitt was 19 when I had to put him to sleep. Just like putting my child to sleep almost. I still miss him and that was 7 years ago. But I do have all those wonderful memories and you will too. Bless you and give Frat Boy an extra special hug and love because he will be missing Ashes also!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:24 pmJessica E says:
I’m so sorry!! I know how painful losing a dog is. The pain never seems to go away but a year later I’m no longer crying every time I think about her. My mom, sisters, and I literally sat and cried together for nearly 48 hours straight. I hope that you and your family are hanging in there during this tough time!!
Posted on February 20th, 2013 at 8:46 pmManuela says:
So sorry to read, lost my cat Fluser end of last year. It is always so sad to say goodbuy and I don’t care what other people say, he was my baby. I know, that words of condolence do not take away the pain but I found that friendly and understanding words helped me a lot to cope. Feel hugged and cuddled. Pets do go to heaven.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 12:41 amMaureen says:
I am so sorry that Ashes is gone. She was a sweetheart.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 3:28 amKaren says:
RIP Ahses
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 7:24 amJenny S. says:
So sorry to hear about Ashes. Sending you a big, big hug…
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 8:17 amLisa O. says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Pets become such a big part of our families it is so hard when we lose them it is losing a family member. Sending you and your family hugs!
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 9:17 amTricia P says:
So sorry for your loss. Ashes was a unique & beautiful dog. I know how you feel, I lost my 10 yr old dalmatian a few years ago. It’s hard to lose our pets, they become part of our family. Sending peaceful thoughts & hugs your way.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 1:06 pmAudri Cox says:
My heart breaks for you..All of us who have been blessed enough to be chosen by a 4 legged friend feel your pain.. R.I.P Ashes…
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 1:33 pmHeidi says:
I am so sorry to hear about your shadow, Ashes. Remember, she went over the Rainbrow Bridge and is waiting for you.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 1:51 pmSheila Schwartz says:
So sorry for your loss…..”Hemi” just turned 12 and has lost a good deal of her hearing..unless you rattle the Oreo package, weird huh…..her steps are slower, and eyesight getting bad…I wonder if I will survive her loss ( or if I can sacrifice something or someone of value in her place)….just kidding about the someone….kinda.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 3:39 pmCarrie G says:
I’m so sorry about your loss. We all know going in that we’ll probably outlive these beloved furry children, but it’s worth it anyway. (((hugs)))
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 4:08 pmJennifer P says:
So sorry to hear this, Jill. Losing a furbaby is never easy, I know.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 4:12 pmcindy tidrick says:
I’m so sorry.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 4:24 pmKarla says:
Very saddened to hear of the loss of your precious baby.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 6:15 pmSue says:
So sorry to hear about Ashes.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 7:03 pmDory says:
I am so truly sorry for your lost. Ashes sounded like a wonderful friend. May she be in doggie heaven chasing squirrels and eating milky bones.
Posted on February 21st, 2013 at 7:23 pmKelli says:
I’m so very sorry for your loss. There are no words when one loses one so dear. Peace to you.
Posted on February 22nd, 2013 at 7:26 amAbby says:
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is so hard. They truly are family. I’ve been reading your blog since 2008, so all your pets’ antics were something I enjoyed reading about. They were staples to your blog. She’s up there in doggy heaven with Mountain Barbie now. You know they’re having fun.
Posted on February 22nd, 2013 at 3:02 pmLori Meehan says:
I’m so sorry Jill for your lose. I love my animals very much. They become such an important part of the family.
Posted on February 22nd, 2013 at 4:26 pmJo Karan says:
Jill I am so sorry for your loss. I have been in your shoes lots of times in my years on this life. I only hope that dogs are in heaven so that I can see all of my buddies again as I miss them so much. RIP Ashes!!!
Posted on February 25th, 2013 at 3:42 pmRoberta De Jong says:
(((HUGS)))
Posted on February 26th, 2013 at 9:58 amMel says:
Jill,
I am so sorry you lost your friend.
I understand how difficult it is to lose a pet. I just lost my best friend too. I miss my cats everyday. Remember your pet is always with you. My condolences go out to you and your family.
Posted on March 31st, 2013 at 2:56 pm